Updates
July 10, 2009, 8:28am PDT - The Jacksonville Rodeo (From Dina)
Well, last night went great! Bess was ready and waiting on me when I got there to pick her up....of course, she wasn't happy because her pink shirt wasn't real clean and it was "Tough Enough to Wear Pink"....but I took care of her and had stopped and picked her a new one up.

We got to the rodeo about 7:15 and Bess wouldn't let me park up at the front of the arena at the handicap...heck no...we had to park in the pasture by the trailers! So, I honored her request! The ground wasn't too bad rough so she was able to maneuver her wheel chair around just fine. We used one of the box seats that were empty to sit in and it was right at the first barrel so she got a great view of everyone running. She, of course, had to critique everyone when running...it was the funniest thing!

Jason Taylor, our preacher from Bar None Cowboy Church, did a quick sermon on the "5 Basic Steps" to life...and compared it to riding bulls.....it was cool how they just brought it right in after the last bull exited the arena. After that, "Branded" came on stage and sang for about an hour. They are an awesome Christian Country group and very well worth seeing!

Bess and I didn't get back to her room until 12:45am or so, fed her and I left there about 1:15am! Yes, it makes for a long Friday when you have to be at work the next day because I didn't get in bed until 2:45am this morning!!!! It was worth it though. She got to do something different and visit with people in passing....looking forward to more visits! Hopefully, one day, I can actually get her to a barrel race towards Terrel or something when I know a lot of people will be there and you guys can meet her personally! She's a nut!

Hope everyone has a great weekend and be safe in your travels!!

 
July 8, 2009, 1:23pm PDT - Bess is out of the hospital (From Dina)
Well, after blood work, lots of antibiotics and all, Bess was finally discharged from the hospital today about 11:45 or 12:00pm. I talked to her and she felt fine...they finally got her fever down and kept it down. She had some red/swelling area on her leg from a little above her knee back up to her waist but that is clearing up fine. She still had a slight UTI which is pretty common but it's cleared up.

She is back in her "home" and much better now! LOL I can remember the days when she would have rather been at the hospital because they had better food! Now, she missed the nursing home because she can get outside there and run around in her chair!

Hopefully we have everything back on track and on the downhill slide for a while!

If things go well, I will be taking her to the Jacksonville Pro Rodeo tomorrow night. Branded--Gospel music group will be performing after the rodeo and she really liked them....also Jason Taylor (our preacher at Bar None) will actually be preaching during this time as well.....so we are going to go out and support putting God and prayer back into anything we can! I think it's going to be awesome and Bess is looking forward to it! Of course, I could tell she was nervous because she kept saying "They won't have a good place for me to sit" and all that! Told her she didn't need to worry about all that!! We would get her there and put her somewhere!!! Hopefully the plans will go as we have them scheduled...and this is another one of those "first time deals" for her so we'll have to keep a watch on her!

Keep her in the prayers!!! Thank you guys for everything! Hope you all have a great day!!

 
July 6, 2009, 2:58pm PDT - Update on Bess (From Dina)
Just talked to the nurse at Henderson Memorial.....Bess does NOT show any blood clots which is wonderful. They do call it cellulitis as the area where she was receiving antibiotic shots for the UTI is real red, irritated and feverish....so...they are pumping her full of more antibiotics. She was running a fever of 101 and they gave her meds for that to bring that down.....she still has a slight UTI but it's better than it was last week. She will be staying overnight--even though she is not very happy about it. I told the nurse to let her know I called and she had to do what they told them to get well whether she liked it or not! She is pretty cold and is piled full of blankets right now but I'm sure the fever has something to do with that.....asked her to give Bess some warm tea and it always seemed to helped her--more so in the mind.....

I am going to call and check on her before I call it a night and will continue to update...Just keep lifting her in prayer!! And pray for those nurses also as she can be "quite the patient" at times!! LOL LOL LOL Hope everyone has a good evening!!

 
July 6, 2009, 10:41am PDT - Bess is in the hospital again (From Dina)
I got a phone call from Mrs. Barbara this morning followed up with an email that I have copied below. The nursing home called about 3:30 this morning and they had to take Bess in to the hospital. I know she was feeling good because I spent the day with her yesterday. We went to Wal Mart and I let her run around the store like a kid! It was funny! NEVER, NEVER, NEVER take a woman to Wal Mart that hasn't been in about 6 months!! YOU WILL GO BROKE!! I Promise you!! LOL !! She saw a lady in one of the electric carts there and she asked if they wanted to race!! She was definitely full of it yesterday that's for sure. We got back to her room about 4:30 and I exercised her arms and stuff....made her really work on lifting and all that. She doesn't have any mirrors in the room (because she didn't really want to see herself for a long time) so I took pictures of her moving and stuff....she was shocked because she just can't tell how far up she's lifting or anything. Anyway....the details are below from Mrs. Barbara. I'm going to call and check on her in a few and I will send updates.....

PLEASE KEEP HER IN THE PRAYERS!!!!!

"I wanted to let ya’ll know that Bess has been admitted to the hospital. I talked to the nurse and she said they were going to be checking for a blood clot. She said she has cellulitis in her upper leg, but I know they have been giving her antibiotic shots in her legs for the UT infection she got last week. She may be having a reaction to a shot or shots. I put her on the prayer list this morning. Wanted to let ya’ll know about her. "

 
July 1, 2009, 7:45pm PDT - A Letter from Bess to Everyone
MESSAGE FROM BESS CHANEY WITH DINA TYPING.....THESE ARE HER WORDS TO EACH OF YOU!!!

Hello everyone!

I want to tell all of you how happy I am to have received all the cards, letters and help from my barrel racing family! All the phone calls have been incredible and I am amazed at those who call that don't even personally know me! I really love the fact that I am able to see "Cody" on a more regular basis! We are both happy to be "reunited" again as he was always my little running buddy.

I get really excited when I find out that people haven't forgotten me because it has been over a year now since I have been in the barrel racing world. (Note from Dina: Guys--she is tearing up at this very moment!!!! I'm telling you! SHE NEEDS US!!) and it really makes me feel good inside to know I am loved.

I don't get to see T-Bone (the gelding I ran) any and I miss that because I spent a lot of time with him but everything happens for a reason.

A special THANK YOU to Heather Burris for painting an incredible oil painting of me and TBone at a barrel race with a caption that reads "God is Able" along the top! I will have Dina post the picture on here for everyone to share! IT IS AMAZING and I shed a few tears over it!

For all of you.....THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!

I love you guys and couldn't do it without you!

Bess Chaney

 
July 1, 2009, 9:56am PDT - Bess is amazing... (From Dina)
I know people probably get so tired of hearing me say this but Bess is truly amazing! She has conquered sooo many challenges (just like anyone else that has done so in her position). It truly makes me realize that any problems with relationships, just plain "I don't care", and anything else that may put me in a bad mood, is REALLY NOT A BIG DEAL!

She NEVER stops trying! I think the turning point was talking to the doctor in California...when he told her she had all the signs in her favor to "retrain her body." She has been going out 4-5 times a day which she barely went out once....she's constantly working her shoulders which has in turn allowed her to raise her arm up quite a bit off the arm of the chair!

I love her and thank her for showing me that the "smaller things in life" are soooo important! She got on to me not too long ago for not riding. She said, "Missy! You get your butt out there! You have 2 good arms and 2 good legs! And one day that could be taken away from you so GET OUT THERE AND DO WHAT YOU LOVE!" Man, if that doesn't make you stop and think!!!!!!

To anyone reading this that may have disabilities....NEVER GIVE UP!!! Keep on keeping on! It will pay off in the long run!

 
July 1, 2009, 9:27am PDT - Bess in the hospital...update (From Dina)
OK...I wasn't able to get on with her last night for any period of time....Bess was taken into the ER...they pulled blood and all that good stuff....

She had another urinary tract infection....they had moved her the other day and her line came out some...and before they realized it, she had some fluids backed up. Anyway...as a result, she started running fever, low blood pressure and major headache.....they pumped her full of antibiotics, gave her meds for her headache to ease the pain, monitored her and sent her back to her "home" the same night.

I talked to her this morning and she was doing much, much better....headache eased up and all that.....

I will tell her people were asking about her and praying for her! The UTI's are VERY common in spinal cord injuries but we are soooo thankful we don't deal with them any more often than we do...and when she gets one, we are usually lucky to catch them early.

Thanks for all the prayers and continued support for her! You just don't have a clue what it means for her!!

 
June 30, 2009, 9:46am PDT - Bess in the hospital (From Dina)
I got an email from Mrs. Barbara this morning....the nursing home called and they have taken her into the ER in Henderson. She was running a fever and her blood pressure was really low. I talked to her last night but only briefly. She had a really bad headache and it hurt her to talk. Besides, the tv was up loud and I couldn't hear her well.

So....Mrs. Barbara is going by there in a bit and will call me with any updates. I will keep you posted!!

 
June 15, 2009, 12:01pm PDT - Baby Steps... (From Dina)
After a long week working the Gladewater Rodeo, I went to church Sunday with Bess & the Quinn's as normal. We took her to eat lunch then back to her room. Well, let me tell you! I about passed out! We were massaging her arms and such for a few minutes and she said, "Hey, watch this." She took a deep breath and raised her right arm up! She almost had the whole arm, hand/fingers included up off the arm of the chair!! WE WERE ALL GOING CRAZY! She did it several times so this was no muscle spasm, accident or anything....just the Good Lord working miracles that's all! Bess has now started going outside more and more every day and she's really starting to show the "Indian" in her! Man! Her arms and face are soooo dark! But she feels better getting some sunlight!

I will keep posting updates as I come across them! Until then....keep the prayers coming because they are obviously working!!!! She may not be moving a whole bunch but every little bit is a major milestone for her!!!!

 
May 22, 2009, 10:06am PDT - Dr. L's Latest Report On Bess (From Dina)
OK...we didn't hear what we wanted but we didn't hear bad news either!!!

Dr. L called us Wednesday night and said the following:

Bess's neck is in near perfect alignment! He said she is fusing wonderfully and the spinal column is completely open which is wonderful news! He said the surgeons here did an outstanding job on her neck and he saw nothing that he could do surgically that could improve anything.

What we did like hearing him say was that Bess has every condition in her favor for her to really struggle and keep every aspect of therapy going to retrain her body to gain functionality!!!! He said since her cord wasn't severed, that was great news (which we knew that). He said we all knew he couldn't say "yes you will or no you won't walk again" but what he could say was she has every possibility to do so because all the conditions are outstanding to allow that!! It was basically up to her now to push herself through and go from there!

Sooooo....with that being said.....we have to jump the track and see what avenues we have on rehabilitation options for her! She gets basic "range of motion" therapy which is better than nothing but she needs high tech equipment and such for her to get the rehab she needs!!!

We are all open for options and ideas so feel free to let me know if you have any ideas!

Please keep her in your prayers!!!! We are fixing to battle a hard road but we've made it over the bumps in the past!!!

 

May 10, 2009, 8:00am PDT - Happy Mother's Day, Bess!
Thank you for teaching us,
Having us in.
All the lessons you taught us
Now we hold within.
Kids needing guidance
You made us feel like your own,
One thing is for sure
U are the best we have known.

Happy Mother's Day, Bess!!!

 
May 7, 2009, 2:52pm PDT - One Request...I'm begging! (From Dina)
Ok guys....I really need your help more than ever!

Last night was an EXTREMELY tough night for Bess! We took her to church then back to the nursing home. We visited for a while and when we got ready to leave she finally broke down and started crying really hard. All we could do was hug her neck and listen. We let her talk and cry it out. She informed us she was soooo tired of feeling weird. She can't do anything! She didn't like it that she could wipe her nose, wipe her rear or do ANYTHING! Always having to depend on someone to take care of her!

I just ask that ANYONE that can call her at this time, PLEASE DO SO!!!! Even if you don't know her! Just tell her you saw the posts on her and was just wanting to make sure she was doing good.....IT WILL LIFT HER UP SOOOOO MUCH!! Her direct line is (903) 657-8176.

I usually try not to ask for much, but guys, this is soooo crucial for her right now to have the support of friends.....keep in mind, she is on a speaker phone and you will get feedback from her tv....THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! - Dina

 
May 6, 2009, 7:40am PDT - Updates... (From Dina)
I finally got an email back from the doctor's office in California....they did receive all of her cd records and Dr. L will be in on Friday....we are hoping to have him review those records at that time and hopefully by next week sometime we will have a conference call with him!

Just keep some really serious prayer action going that he can call and tell us he sees some possible ways of helping her!!!! I will let you know as I hear more!!!

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